Saturday, May 18, 2013

Chinese Manners



Tonight on the way out of the subway Danny and I slowed down to let a little girl and her parents ahead of us on the escalator. The guy behind us shoved into Danny’s side and pushed ahead of him. Now he was standing a whole step ahead of us on the crowded escalator.

Danny (laughing to me): I don’t understand these people.

(The rest of the conversation was in Chinese so I’m basing this on Danny’s rough translation and the few words I caught.)

Rude guy on the escalator: Why were you walking so slowly?
Danny (laughing):  I was letting the little girl go.
Rude guy on the escalator: This is China. It isn’t America. I’m in a rush. You can’t do that.
Danny (laughing): Oh, so in China people don’t have manners.
Rude guy on the escalator: He looked very sad and confused, couldn’t think of a retort and walked away.

One point to Danny in the debate between civilized society and Shanghai.